Social networking allows individuals to share their stories with a large number of people at a time. When people begin to share the story of their lives with one another, they build a foundation of trust between the sharer and the listener, and from that trust grows empathy.
Empathy occurs when individuals identify with the emotional experience that someone else is having; essentially, it occurs when a person "puts themselves in someone else's shoes." When someone shares his or her insights and personal experiences, others have the opportunity to find out who that person really is.
This exposure to new thoughts and ideas is contributing to consciousness-raising within the digital age, where people are able to see things from different viewpoints and perspectives due to the glimpses they have into the personal lives of a large number of different individuals. After the dot-com bubble burst in 2000, the first social networks started to spring up, namely MySpace and Facebook.
Social networking took off from there and has continued to expand, making it one of the most effective public communication methods in the world. Because of the large number of people that can be reached with a single message and the speed with which they can receive it, social networking is an excellent method for organizing towards a common cause and for spreading important information.
However, creating contacts within social networks does not mean sending out one message to thousands of people, hoping that it will reach an individual who is actually interested. Instead, it is about focusing on a smaller group of individuals who are passionate about the subject that a group or individual has to offer, giving them that information, and allowing them to spread the information throughout their own social networks.
An organization or individual should make sure its contact list contains some "connectors." Connectors are people who have a talent for making and maintaining friendships.
They tend to be very charismatic and outgoing, and they are involved in many different niche activities, thus resulting in their large and diverse group of contacts. These connectors are good at relaying information to two different types of relationships that exist within the social networking world.
The first type is a "weak tie," who is someone with which an individual has had light and infrequent interaction. The second type of social networking relationship is a "strong tie"--someone who has a significant relationship with an individual, such as a family member or close friend.
Connectors are particularly skilled at enlarging their pool of weak ties, thus increasing the amount of people who read and follow their updates, which is why it is so important for social networkers to utilize connectors when trying to spread information. Authenticity is another important aspect of online social networking.
People can spot phoniness right away, both online and offline, so it is very beneficial to individuals and corporations just to be themselves. Those participating in online social networks should be authentic and share who they really are; doing so helps encourage the development of real relationships that can spill into the outside world, whether it is within their workplace or personal life.
Individuals should also be willing to share painful and difficult moments. Doing so will rally support behind the cause they are discussing and will also deepen the bond between the sharer and the follower.
An incident at a Philadelphia country club provides a good example of how the sharing of experiences can lead to social change. In the summer of 2009, a private country club in Philadelphia banned a group of African-American children from swimming in its pool, even though the children's camp had paid for the swimming rights.
The word spread through social networks like wildfire. To raise awareness of their concern, individuals began posting stories about prejudice that they had encountered within their own lives.
When their followers started reading about the instances of racism and prejudice that their own friends had faced, they became much more impassioned about and outraged by the issue. Because of the connections they had made online, many individuals who had never experienced racism or prejudice first-hand gained a deeper understanding of what it actually felt like, and they were motivated to take action against it.
This article is based on the book "Share This!" The book summary is available online at Business Book Summaries.